Worrying about regret is not the life you want. Taking your new perspective in life will give you new ways to resolve the issues you want. The way that people cope with reality is the greatest way to be destroyed. It’s going to be a new adventure when you have a playlist that can play in the background. At least you will know if something can be or can’t be. It’s not that I am smarter than you, it’s because I’ve lived longer.